Yep - that's exactly what I wanted - I just asked the question incorrectly the first time. I found that I had to go to each page separately and do a ?flush=1 for links to correct themselves (some pages had 3 photo gallery links (even though I returned the navigation.ss to it's original) and the pages I mentioned before had just the new one - I am figuring that I had to do a ?flush=1 for the pages that were missing the link before but didn't know it.
I am hoping that this solves all of the problems I was having and I can present the site to the client.
Thank you so much for taking the time to help me!
Sue